Live...laugh...love Life with 4 kids 6 and under. Our trip to pick up Tonito in China is: mid-March 2008 through April 12. Our trips to pick up Ricky in Ethiopia are in June and August of 2010.

Sunday, June 20, 2010

Day 1: On our way to the Omo Valley!

We were ready for our early 7am pick-up (even though our bodies felt like it was 11pm). We're driving from Addis Ababa to Dorze, which is in the Gughe Mountains, above Arba Minch. If you look on the map, it is around the "y" in the word "valley" by the Rift Valley Lakes.

Leaving for our Omo Valley trip, we drove from our hotel near the airport, south out of Addis Ababa. As it was Sunday, we passed the huge Ethiopian Orthodox Church, and saw crowds of women dressed in white veils and white shammas. Our guide tells us that around 70% of Addis is Orthodox Christian and the rest is Muslim. The sweet smell of mangos and bananas wafted from the numerous fruit markets, while moms rushed around the streets carrying babies on their backs or baskets on their heads. Little kids shining shoes surely had their hands full as some of the sidewalks and side streets were dusty and unpaved. Throngs of people (and animals) were walking along the street everywhere- as we found out is the case throughout Ethiopia. In one poor neighborhood, corrugated metal houses crammed together, busting with children playing soccer in the nearby fields. It seemed that half of the city was under construction, with skeletons of eucalyptus scaffolding precariously wrapping the cement structures.
Two streets over a new neighborhood of mansions was being constructed: monstrous structures with high arched windows, surrounded by high walls topped with chards of glass to protect its inhabitants. Beyond the wealthy area, hundreds of government subsidized apartments extended as far as we could see, like blocks of grey legos waiting for their cheery paint. Later in our trip we would see governmental commerials that advertise "50,000 new residents will enjoy cobblestone streets." We saw microbuses packed with people, a taxi loaded with chat bundles (the legal hallucinogenic drug), and several more “traditional,” animal- powered taxis. It seems to be that horses pull carts of people, while they prefer donkeys to pull carts of goods. Once we left the outskirts of Addis, the modern construction was replaced by mud and straw huts. The aroma of the eucalyptus trees and views of the cloud topped mountains calmed our nerves, and assured us we knew this was the start of a fabulous trip. We said good-bye to the city, and hello to the green, lush countryside.

The highway was paved for a while, and we could drive very fast in between herds of animals. I still cannot believe the amount of animals lazily walking on the road (ON the main road). In Latin America, and even rural Ireland or Spain, you might find some sheep or cows on the road. Nothing compares to the amount of goat and cattle we see in Ethiopia. I asked Yosef (our guide and driver) what would happen if he would accidentally hit one of these hundreds of animals that are walking on, sleeping on, standing on, or darting out in front of us on the highway. He told us he would have to pay the family, and in fact did pay a family one time for a baby goat that he hit. “I go free only when I hit a street dog.” Fortunately we rarely see dogs outside of Addis, which I thought was odd because in other countries dogs seem to outnumber farm animals sometimes. Herding these animals are boys, from age 7 up, although sometimes a little guy will follow around his dad. Something that made me extremely nervous as a mom was seeing little kids (ages 2-5) playing in or near the highway. I know there is only 1 car passing every 5-10 minutes, but the speed at which they pass these sweeties is too dangerous!

About a half an hour outside of Addis we came to a small village. There were many donkeys wearing a wooden tray in the shape of an upside-down V, on their backs. In the trays, were bright yellow, plastic containers carrying water from the well/river. Many of these yellow jugs originally held cooking oil, and now were being recycled to transport water, since they were much lighter than traditional clay pots and could carry more than calabashes. In the ditches and muddy streams, we passed children laughing and splashing while their moms washed clothes or bathed themselves.

There were 3 types of huts we observed in the Oromo tribe: a round mud/straw base with a thatched roof; a kind-of triangle house made of long and skinny sticks for the base with a corrugated metal roof; or an A-line house, built with a combination of long and skinny sticks, covered with the mud/straw mixture, topped with a corrugated metal roof. The huts were dotted near the main road, and then the fields spread out like a yellow (dried harvest), green (current harvest) and red (soil) patchwork quilt. The farmers in this southern region plant sorghum, corn, barley and wheat (no teff grows here! The injera in the south many times does not contain teff!). Sorghum has the same structure as corn (tall stalks), but does not have a “fruit” like corn. Instead, what they harvest is the top grassy part, which is reddish brown (compared to the yellow corn tassel). In our whole journey from Addis and through the Omo Valley, we saw thousands of farms… and yet we never saw a single piece of machinery. No tractors, none of those moveable irrigators, no farming equipment at all. We saw men or boys behind oxen ploughing, and we saw women and men with hand tools (which I don’t even have the vocabulary for) working in the fields.

We stopped for tea and a restroom break at Butajira, and noticed that the only cars around were muddy 4x4s. Yosef told us that Toyotas are the most popular cars for driving outside of the cities, and that Toyota even builds their 4x4s with “African” specifications, which are much tougher than American/European specs because these SUVs are actually driving through riverbeds, and crossing rocky, rough terrain (and not paved suburban streets).
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After Butajira, we passed through Guragi territory, where there are more Muslims than in other areas. We were told by Yosef that this tribe was known for being very hard workers, however I think that you can extend this stereotype to all of the Ethiopians that we saw. I personally was amazed at the strength of the women. You know the old “I walked to school barefoot, uphill both ways” story? These women were carrying huge bundles of sticks, straw, stalks, and were indeed walking miles barefoot, and uphill. Tonio kept joking that I have it too easy, but there is the realization that he is completely right: we have it so easy. I several pregnant women doing the same work, and one woman carried the bundle of wood on her back, and her baby was perched (almost impossibly) on top! Here are some women carrying injera to sell in the market:

Each of the tribes has their own language, traditions, way of dress, and culture. Sometimes it took us a minute to pass through the lands of a tribe, and other times it took us hours. Yosef told us that although Ethiopia holds a plethora of tribes and diverse people, the years under Selassie and even the communists created a very strong national unity. Ethiopians are proud of their differences, proud of their culture, and are very patriotic Africans. We passed through the Silte (pronounced sill-tay) people, and the Hadiyyi tribe, and then arrived in Sodo. Just outside the town, we came across a tree that must have had 30-40 nests hanging from it. Flying in and out of these balls of straw were brilliant yellow birds singing and fluttering about.

I think our Jeep smiled as we transitioned onto a very bumpy road. Remember the dry, famished Ethiopia you saw on the news in the 80’s and 90’s? Throw it all out the window and rethink your image. This is the lush, green cloud forest we were driving through in Southern Ethiopia. The smell of cool humidity overwhelmed the car and we awed at the fertile valley, telling Yosef over and over “this is not how we imagined Ethiopia,” as he knowingly nodded his head. We passed the Gammo people, part of the Dorze tribe. Men were picking cotton, women were drying clothes over wooden fences, and children were jumping over sticks laid on the ground in a game similar to hopscotch.

Yosef knows people everywhere, and had arranged for his friend to be our local guide in Dorze. On our drive, I thought I was looking at fields of bananas (haha, now that I am the expert on bananas since we have some in our garden). It turns out I was wrong, and the plant is rightfully named “False banana.” We were told that bananas do not grow in this high altitude.

The Dorze take full advantage of the false banana tree, and use it in constructing their unique houses, as well as for a food. Their houses are the shape of an elephant’s head, because a long time ago elephants roamed here. (side note- Yosef told us that during the communist regime, the Kenyans came in helicopters and herded the elephants into Kenya where they now live on reserves. He claims that the communists did nothing, and now Kenya was reaping the benefits, ie tourism dollars). Anyway, so the Dorze huts look like elephants with the 2 upper windows being the eyes, and the hump of a trunk coming down over the door. They are built with bamboo, and topped with the leaves of false banana trees.

Termites begin to eat the huts from the bottom almost immediately. The Dorze purposely build the huts 12 meters high, knowing that the houses will gradually become shorter as the termites chew the bamboo from the ground up. You can see on the right, the hut that used to be 12 meters is now very short and is used for someone’s grandfather now. The hut on the left was recently built and is 12 meters high. Isn’t that crazy!? It takes 3 months for 6 people to build it, and then they change roofs/covers every 5-10 years. The houses last for 60 years, and are rainproof and moveable (although it takes 50-60 men to pick them up and move them). Usually, when people get married, the men inherit the land from their parents, and the Dorze build them a small hut called a “honeymoon hut” that they use for the first 3 months of marriage. Then they build the large one, complete with storage rooms, bunk beds (bottom for parents, top for kids), kitchen, coffee area, and beer making area. On the backside of the hut, on the picture to the right, you can see the large clay urns that held fermenting ground maize and wheat, on its way to becoming a local beer.

When we came inside, it took a minute for our eyes to get adjusted to the blackness. The walls were lined with calabashes (aka Et tupperware), used for drinking and holding liquids, brooms, and the seats were bamboo frames covered with goat skins. In the center of the hut was a small place for a fire, where they would brew the ubiquitous coffee.

There are about 7300 Dorze in this village, but many more in the farther territory. The Dorze are Orthodox Christians, and have many religious ceremonies. Their biggest festivals are on Sept 11 (New Years), Christmas, and Easter, which they celebrate with family and friends, and lots of eating (such as chicken doro wat) and drinking (their homemade beer or liquor). We heard singing in their church, and saw the cemetery in the forest. They are famous for their farming, weaving cotton into shammas and scarves, and making pottery, and each person is responsible for one of these. The cotton production is a family affair: the kids are in charge of taking out the seeds, the women spin the thread, and the men weave the blankets or shammas. When not bright white, the thread is dyed using local flowers in brilliant colors. They organized a weaving co-op in the town and work collectively to produce beautiful products.

Unlike in other parts of Ethiopia, where teff flour is made into injera daily, the Dorze make their bread from “quoitcho,” which I am probably spelling wrong. Taking the leaf of a false banana, the woman begins to scrape the stem. The dry fibers are used for rope.
She then takes the juicy bits (which smelled like fresh leaves) and bury them in a false banana leaf, 1 meter down, for 3 months. We were told “when it ferments, and smells like rotten cheese, you take it out.” They showed us how it smelled (they were right), and how she can mix it with water to make a dough, sometimes they also mix in other flours.
They cook it on a hot comal (OK, comals are Mexican but I don’t know what else to call it), wrapped in a false banana leaf, over a fire. Then they just take off the banana leaf and cook it a bit more on each side, and when it’s finished it reminds me of a thick tortilla! How was this invented? Who came up with this!? It tasted really good though, not at all how it smelled when they unburied it.
The great part about the false banana is that it provides shelter (the dried leaves make the cover of their hut), food (their bread, plus the root is made into a porridge), food for their animals (who eat the flower/fruit), rope (the leftover fibers), umbrellas (they make out of the leaves)… and it can survive a drought of 3-4 months because it has the ability to store rain in its trunk! Pretty amazing.

With the quoitcho bread, we tasted some pretty awful distilled liquor (no offense Dorze people!). The spicy, firey chiles they used in the salsa we ate with the quoitcho burned all the way down, and continued "working" for what seemed like forever:). Tonio enjoyed picante sauce as he wiped away the sweat from his brow. I was laughing when they said they always drink the homemade brew with their raw meat dishes, because it kills whatever bad bacteria or parasites are around! (I remember a similar story in Slovenia about the local slivovitz being used to treat stomach ailments). They also drink this “aragay” in the morning to warm up- Dorze was high enough in the mountains to have a cool temperature year round. I was actually cold at night with my jeans and fleece on! We walked around the Dorze village with our guide, and he showed us his house, and introduced us to his mom, his grandfather, and baby sister. Some kids followed us around the village and sold us some traditional instruments that they made.

The kids tried to show us a game involving a wooden tablet with 12 holes, and 4 stones each. That’s about as far as they got before they started speaking in their own language and flipping stones around. They also showed us instruments they made (and we bought), and some leopard skins (whaaat?). These 10 year old twins wouldn’t let go of my arm and followed us through the village in the evening, and came to visit again in the morning. The kids love talking about the World Cup, and all want an African team to win (Cote d’Ivoire seems to be the favorite). They told us they love to play football (soccer), and asked excitedly if we had a soccer ball to play with them. We told them no, and they said they didn’t have one either, and in the end we gave them money to buy a football.

For dinner we had separate dishes of beets, spinach, spicy small beans, cabbage, pasta with tomato sauce, injera, and bread. It was sooooooooo good. When we finally made our way to our own little Dorze hut for the night, we closed the door and found a huge spider on the back of it. Tonio killed it, and then we proceeded to check the blankets, sheets, bed, floor, for any more of its spider friends, while Tonio sang “The Itsy-Bitsy Spider.” We didn’t find any (phew!).

On the way to the bathroom (a walk in the pitch black to a pitch black hole in the ground) I told Tonio “Oh! I thought I just saw a leopard!” to which he replied “Oh, leopards are easy! You just have to walk backwards. Spiders sneak up on you when you’re sleeping!” I think I was overtired and slap-happy because I couldn’t stop laughing until we were in bed. Walk backwards. Heehee.

Saturday, June 19, 2010

28+ hours of transportation

We took our car to Hobby airport and parked it so my mom would be able to use it to come to our house on Saturday. Then we rented a car (yes, it was cheaper than a taxi!) and drove to Bush airport, and got there nice and early for our noon flight. We then flew to Newark for a couple of hours, and then across the ocean to Frankfurt. In Houston and in Newark we relaxed in the "President's Club" or lounge or whatever it is called: think laptops, leather chairs, business travellers... all ver calm and serious. Until USA scores against Slovenia and the crowd goes wild:). Because I am more of a backpacking/hostel-staying traveller, I was not used to being so comfortable in an airport! Now I know why Tonio travels so much! (just kidding Ton:). At every stop we talked to the kids and grandparents- I already miss them and was almost crying just hearing their sweet little voices telling me how much they love me- and that they already were using the "kisses" I gave them in their little palms. After waiting forever in security in Frankfurt, we flew to Addis Ababa! It is a little chilly here- and rainy- and you could smell the humidity as you left the plane. The airport is clean and organized, and not very crowded. We first went to get the $20 required visa, and then changed money (we had been told the rates were the same in and out of the airport). We went through customs and immigration, and found all of our bags right away. We must have gotten off the plane first because the line to get visas was enormous when we were already leaving the customs area. Our guide was supposed to meet us at the airport with a sign, and there we saw our name! Yohannes (from the travel agency) and Yosef (our driver and guide) are extremely nice, speak great English, and helped us get to the hotel. On the plane we met a guy our age from Sudan, who was sent to Kenya at age 12 and then to Tennessee as a 14 year old refugee during the civil war (think Lost Boys). He was so interesting- telling us how he is from a small village and now works in DC as a computer engineer. When he was a kid, he used to be in charge of not letting the baby calves drink all their moms milk, because the families needed the milk for themselves. Anyway, he didn't know where he was going to stay tonight so I told him to come with our driver and he could see if our hotel had a room (he did and they did). The 10 minute ride from the airport to the guest house the 3 guys talked all things World Cup. That Nigeria doesn't deserve to play because they aren't playing with passion, that at first they hated Mexico for tying with S. Africa in the first game, but then loving them when they beat France 2-0, that Cote d'Ivoire is their favorite African team, and that Germany and England are doing terrible. They were joking and laughing and saying we will find TV's somewhere to watch more games on our camping trip- should be interesting! We are settled in and should go to sleep now so that we can get up early. Just wanted to let everyone know we got here safe and I will post more in a week!

Thursday, June 17, 2010

Going to Ethiopia!

Monday: Find out we passed court
Tuesday: Start to look at flights, see if we can travel a bit in country; Vivi gets a high fever
Wednesday: Buy tickets; Maya gets high fever
Thursday: Crazily organize donations, kids' activities, do laundry, Tonito gets a high fever (V and M are better)
Friday: 7am leave for the airport!!!
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I am so overwhelmed and exhausted from nights taking care of the kids and trying to plan everything... but now it's almost here... We have been waiting for so long to meet our little guy and it is happening so soon!!! For the first week we will not have internet because we will be very rural. I will post pictures and adventures once we are back in Addis Ababa! Please keep us in your prayers!!

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Ballerinas!

This post is from june 4th, but blogger is not cooperating:




My 2 little princesses had their ballet recital!:) I have said this before: there is nothing cuter than little girls dancing around in tutus!! I was so teary watching them on the big stage performing in front of everyone!! Maya was terrified and I was holding her backstage until literally the last second when her teacher took her hand and had to practically drag her on stage. She kept looking at the girls performing and saying "I no do that." Once on stage she just fell into place and did the whole dance (phew). I really didn't want her to feel embarrassed and start crying in the middle, poor baby. I actually have way more pictures of her because I was helping backstage with the little ones. Vivi was with the "big girls" and did really well- even though she too was sooo embrassed to be onstage she kept looking down and biting her lip (while doing pliets and arabesques). They are so big!!! Seeing them all dressed with their hair slicked in a bun reminds me of when I was little and dancing in ballet. The lights, the music, the flowers.. so special. I am so proud of them!




Maya getting ready, and look at the group performing beforehand.... so nervous!
On stage, they could see their teacher and watch her dance:).. afterwards they celebrated with cookies!

Monday, June 14, 2010

TWO shocks in one day

We had a SHOCKING phone call this Monday morning: "This is Andrea from WACAP- you ahve a court date!" We were assigned a court date over the weekend... JUNE 30th!!! This is so exciting, and we have been waiting SO long!!! We're going to Ethiopia!!!
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The second surprise of the day- Vivi (who could not swim in May) WON FIRST PLACE!?!!?! She just swam right across the pool, smiling at me, and WON her heat! I will post the video later of the kids- I am so proud of them! Tonito did great too- he is a little fish in the water and really looks like he was born to swim. Just think- he has only had experience with pools for 2 summers and now he is on swim team! It is amazing to watch your kids master a skill (I am using the word "master" very liberally;).

Sunday, June 13, 2010

Austin!

We spent Sunday in Austin! I really liked Austin- it is different from Houston and its strip malls and chain stores. Lots of character, and even some hills. Zilker Park was awesome- right near downtown, a Nature Center, playground, spring-fed pool, hiking, kayaking...

The kids' favorite part was the little train that ran along the river. I highly recommend the park for anyone with kids!

Next we went to the Texas State History Museum. Guess why 6 Flags theme park has its name? Because Texas has had 6 flags flying over it: Spain, France, Mexico, Republic of Texas (for 9 years!), USA and Confederate States of America. It was an interesting museum, although I would have learned more if I hadn't been going 60 miles an hour to herd the sheep, er I mean kids.


Of course Austin is the capital of Texas, so we visited the massive capitol building.




And then for dinner we had some Texas barbecue. Everything was very Texan. Except the accents- I thought people from Texas had a southern twang!? So far in Houston and Austin it is not very noticeable and I am a little disappointed that everyone sounds like me (bc obviously I have no accent- haha). I thought the kids would pick up a little singsong as a souvenir, but I haven't even heard them say "ya'll" yet. I'll need to try it more often at home.

Saturday, June 12, 2010

Pool time

Most of our days are spent swimming in the pool! We had a fiesta with several of our Venezuelan friends, made some pizza, did some cannonballs:

The whole day looked like it would rain but it never did:

Maya wants to be as big as everyone else, and thinks she is 5. She cannot swim however, and Tonio has pulled her out of the pool once when she slipped underwater. Tonio was right there in the pool when it happened, and Vivi saw her too and was screaming "Maya's under the water." After recovering from my heart attack and aging about 10 years, I frequently just hold Maya in the pool now even though she likes to play on the stairs. My baby!!!

Vivi loves to be a little mama and really takes care of her little sister. Maya completely adores and looks up to Vivi and wants to do everything she says. This can be dangerous sometimes:). Vivi's influence on Maya is incredible, and each one knows how to make the other mad: one time Maya was crying huge crocodile tears, and I finally found out what was wrong: "Vivi say I no princess!" All Vivi had to do was say "OK Maya, you're a princess" and the tears magically stopped. I am humming the "Sisters" song from Bing Crosby's "White Christmas" (Sisters, Sisters, there were never more devoted sisters."

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

Los Abuelitos!


Our abuelitos are here! (also known as 'ito and 'ita). We've been showing them our newfound swimming skills, spending a lot of time in the pool!

Thursday, June 3, 2010

Pool and dress-up


Summertime playdates have begun! It's great at this age that all ages and genders can still play together!!! The experts warn me that this doesn't last forever, so I'll take advantage while I can!